BEX - you're right , what I said was/is no better then her and that's pretty damned low. However true it may be , it wasnt nice.
One thing I always try to keep in mind is what will I leave behind when im gone. When you are as hatefull as she is the only thing people will recall about you is how nasty you were.
I may not be one of the nicest people on here but im certainly a long way from hating others as much as FTF does.
I sincerely hope my life ends before I end up like her....

"Blessed are the flexible for they shall not get bent out of shape"
"You can discipline and Discourage or you can Discipline and Encourage"
"Gentle in what you do , But firm in how you do it"