I have steel toed boots because I also use them on the motorcycle. I typically ride with them with NO issues whatsoever. I've never had the steel bend and as someone else mentioned, the breaking myth is junk--so long as the steel is rated properly!!

If you have tender toes, go steel toe. If not, then don't worry about it- get a pair of boots you like and are comfortable.

The moment that you stop being an advocate for your horse(s) is the precise moment when you should not be the one responsible for them.