My husband and I have a pretty good split - if I fill the dishwasher, he usually empties it. If I put a load of laundry in, he'll help me fold it and put it away. I usually clean the bathroom (he's not as anal about it as I am, so I prefer to do it), he always cuts the grass and cleans up the dog poo. We share vacuuming 50/50 (we have a Malamute, so the house gets vacuumed about two or three times a week). We share dusting duties and bed making duties. As far as cooking - he does breakfast and anything that needs to be grilled and I do the rest. We also share the care of our daughter - he mostly gets her ready in the morning and I mostly get her ready for bed in the evening. He's pretty awesome