I guess it just depends on the couple My husband definitely has his own hobbies like golf, fishing, hunting that I have no interest in and I'm WAY more in to the horses than he is. I do all the stall cleaning, training of the horses, grooming etc but it's nice that he will occasionally go on a trail ride with me or enjoy a horse show I drag him to. It also helps that he's starting to appreciate what a well bred Arab looks like so when I HAVE to have that mare he understands!image