Heck, why should she be mad at you? It was her horse that got out. She was the last one there, if I understood your post correctly, you tried to contact her and she didn't contact you back and tell you what she wanted you to do (she really should have gotten her butt over there and taken care of it herself). Why should she be mad at you. Had she called you back she could have told you to put her in a stall and she was on her way. It would be a pain, but maybe if she is like that you both need to take care of your own morning and evening chores. A pain, I know. Is there someplace else in the barn you all can put your feed and stuff that the horses cannot get into?