Lighter color is nice, I think.

You're very productive, would you like to come help with my kitchen? How long have I had the cabinet doors now and nothing has been done.

(I had a moment of panic when I got back from my Ohio trip and my paint samples were all taken down off the cabinets. I was afraid my children had lost/thrown away my 'most likely will use' color sample from the lady's paint can wrapper.)

Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity.
(attributed to
Robert J. Hanlon)

People with true credibility and integrity don't need to tell other people how great they are. They also don't need to belittle other people to feel superior.
(msmith)