Brian Rad wrote:
So if a woman gets all upset over a sexual innuendo from a straight man ( real or perceived)  it's a legitimate concern.

If a straight man gets all upset over a sexual innuendo from a gay man ( real or perceived) it's total bullshit.

Got it.
No. If a straight man is sexually harassed by a gay man, that's a legitimate concern. Simply being gay and in the near vicinity, however, is not sexual harassment.