Most people I've met don't care either. I mean, we had one girl who was as butch as you could get. She screamed lesbian, but no one gave two shits about taking a shower with her. We didn't have enough time for bathing to care about who was next to us and what they saw, and believe me, when you're in that enviroment, sex isn't going to be on your mind. Especially in bootcamp, because the RDC would kick your ass if you weren't done and ready in the time given. People just wanted to get under the water and get dressed as quickly as possible.

At my A school, I know a lot of gay males too who weren't that hard to figure out. Hell, most of them weren't even keeping it a secret. No one really cares, and unless they're being overly vulgar in public, it's a non-issue. There's one guy in particular who is probably the most effeminate guy I've ever seen there, and he's going with the 1st Marine Division. His grades were some of the highest, and he chose fmtb. Sexuality doesn't have anything to do with wanting to serve or being a good sailor/soldier/marine/airman.