I kind of agree with Msmith. It would be awkward later to back out, but not nearly as humiliating for her as that video and being turned down publicly. That was really terrible.

Spooksandbolts wrote:

How terribly sad for you that the extensive advice you've been given wasn't what you wanted and wasn't sufficient for you to figure what to do. 
Luckyduckerpart2 wrote:
Sometimes I wonder if there is an asshat of the year award you may be competing for that we don't know about.