^excellent points Peds. But who knows who's car is being used by the daughter, if it were Tinker's that makes sense to remove access but she won't be able to control much if the ex husband is the one owning that car.

Can you not call a serviceman out to repair the dryer issue?


I won't say sorry Tinker, I understand the mourning and depression over this event however it gives you the chance, a REALLY good chance, to revamp who you are and make some significant changes to who you are and your outlook on life. I think that you could definitely sculp this into a blessing in disguise if you wished so and I hope (but don't expect you to) you jump at the chance. Good luck! Now's the time to stand up for yourself. No passive aggressive, pity me, woe is me life is so hard shit, because that will only make the negative crap that happens more frequently occurring.
I hope to see some awesome updates from you in time Tinker! Now's your time!