CarpeNoctem wrote:
 My husband turned me into someone I hated. I was miserable. I was a better person before I met him and I want to leave behind the name I adopted when I became that miserable person.
I have said these words so many times.  That I've become someone I don't know or recognize.  I used to be so laid back, easy going, optimistic etc and the person I am today is much more bitchy and miserable.  I hate this person and want my old self back!  I totally get it.