She used to load and now she doesn't. Something happened to her that she associates with the trailer. You have to figure out what that is.

Borrow someone else's trailer and see if she loads. If she does, it's your trailer. If she doesn't, it's probably you (she's picking up on your anxiety, doesn't trust you, etc).

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