This burns me to type out..

I actually am giving KOTJ the benefit of the doubt here , she really seems to of done right by this dog and continues to do so.

I hate to say lets just wait for her to screw up but for the first time I actually feel like she isn't being completely unreasonable and isn't setting herself up to fail.

and thank you Unruli and Bambi.

"Blessed are the flexible for they shall not get bent out of shape"
"You can discipline and Discourage or you can Discipline and Encourage"
"Gentle in what you do , But firm in how you do it"