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Oct 28 08 3:05 PM
Not too long ago I had a "good friend" who really did a number on me. First off in high school she used my hairbrush and guess what a few weeks later her mother phones tells me I better get checked for lice. Sure enough, after 11 grades I get lice. Argh. She didn't even have the gall to tell me herself and for weeks afterwards I had to endure hours of lice picking every night. Finally I got enough of it clear that we had my hair cut to make things easier, thought we had them all but nope soon enough I got itchy and was finding spots of blood on my pillows again. Never once did she say hey sorry, or yeah I gave them to you. Didn't even bring it up I was on the verge of getting my damn head shaved because it was so bad. I let it slide, made excuses for it like she was embarassed as she was such a clean and well kept person. Next it was her talking bad about me to everyone and their mother while being a sweet andcaring "sister" to me. I let it slide, said there had to be reasons. She then tired to sell the boyfriend a ring she had but it didn't fit her anymore, didn't have the money to resize it and said that I'd really like it. He eventually paid her half of what she wanted ($100 or so) and then went and had it looked at by a jeweler as he said he had this gut feeling she wasn't telling the thruth about it being a real diamond. His gut feeling was right. He confronted her about it, she played the incent victim of an idiot jewler who told her it was real. Finally had enough and broken everything off with her told her why (she denied everything but I knew otherwise), she still hasn't said sorry nor tried to pay back to $100 or so that he gave her. I wish I had dropped her when the lice incident happened but I was desperate for friends as I was/am very shy and making friends never went well. I say drop this "friend", not worth it and if "friend" does this one or two things you can be sure she'll do something else to top the last thing, even confront her if you will before doing so. It's really not worth saving a friendship that you can't even trust.
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