Poor squishy.

I think that if you feel it's time, even if you don't want to admit it, it's probably time. Don't wait too long.

Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity.
(attributed to
Robert J. Hanlon)

People with true credibility and integrity don't need to tell other people how great they are. They also don't need to belittle other people to feel superior.
(msmith)