ponypimpmomma wrote:
I hate bashing... that's just me. If you notice I've stepped far far away. Not because I don't want to "take a side" but because I know this is so destructive and there are people who can do this with no ill effects but there are also people who take these things deeply to heart. I would never want to be part of anything that actually hurt someone in any way.


Im in the same boat PPM. I can see both sides, and I enjoy people on both sides of this argument very much. However, I do feel that some people were too harsh and I think baiting others is stupid. It doesn't do anything but hurt feelings. That being said, we are all adults and if we can't handle the heat we should not be near the fire. *shrugs*

NG is one of my very best friends and I can assure you she is much different in person. She is really one of the most caring and compassionate people I know. I feel bad that she is leaving, but if that is what she needs to do to feel safe, then I support her in that decision. I love her no matter what she does. This is just the internet -- REAL life is so much more important.

"Unscientific studies of FiSH forum prove uncategorically that any thread may soon take a hard left into bashing, questioning, defending, linking to previous posts, and arguing; however, said thread will, by page 20, degenerate into massive overdoses of cuteness, love and noms. WIN." -- Lsrd1