Squish,
Is your hubby channeling pubescent boy? Nipples are not meant to be sucked by grown men. I thought they outgrew that after the goofy teen-aged years.

I had no drugs for my daughter but I was also only in labor for 20 minutes. From the time my water broke to the time she was born I had all of 5 or 6 contractions and out she came. I barely made it to the hospital.
Couldn't breast feed though. I tried but as my wonderful lifelong male friend told me "you only produce skim milk anyway"
Refer back to no titties when I was skinny post. When my OB looked at a milk sample, even she was stunned at how clear and non-nutritional it was. I failed.