Something I'm sort of wondering about is in the case of self-care places:

Presumably if you're providing your own care that means you provide your own feed. Does that include hay? Do I get my own storage space for all of this food? How the heck does that work?

Are there times I'm not allowed at the barn? (the place I took lessons at closed after certain times and I'm pretty sure boarders were expected not to come after then).