I don't mind being told it is maybe time to sell her...at all. But she changed her tune a few hours later, well, maybe you shouldn't. One minute I can't ride her and the next I can. I was in favor of not blowing a ton more money on her right now why I figure out what to do and focus on my other horse...I wasn't pulling out of the barn all together at all. I was just floored and confused by the yes and no's. Ahg. Usually when you part ways with a trainer you do just that with a firm reason. I have done it too many times:-)