TrueAntihero wrote:
now is the 'stay the fuck out of it' moment.
I agree.
Just to throw this out there: Society has less "of a problem" with an older woman, younger man scenario. People will wonder, and should wonder, why you are so wound up about a young man's choice of partner(s).Of course, manipulation and threatening to kill oneself are completely different than whatever other sexual thing may be going on here.
You have done what you think is right to help your friend. Now you get to do the difficult thing, which is wait and see what happens.