I would call the hospitals first and ask them if they had a patient brought in over night by the name of 'X'.

As for the police, you can say something similar. Did they arrest anyone last night named 'X'? Just say your boyfriend didn't come home last night, you can't get in touch with him, and you're worried. You want to make sure he's not in the hospital or in jail before you go out looking for him. You don't have to say that he was drinking and went driving around.

But you have to calm down before you do all of that. I'm sure he is asleep on someone's couch.

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