I think when it comes down to an ultimatum like that, it's best to bite the bullet and declaw the cat. I had to do that for the same reason, and it worked out well. Happy cat, happy DH, happy neighbors. He was getting up on the roof of their 3-story house and wailing so loud at 3AM when he couldn't get down that we could hear him from a block away INSIDE the house. Neighbors were pissed, as it happened more than once. We just had his front paws done, he still has the hinds. He still hunts, terrorizes the dogs, and can do some climbing.

charleyharvey wrote:
Yeah, I have a lot of time in my schedule to baby people with persecution complexes who think the whole world revolves around them.
sellefrancais wrote:
Hahahahah whatever "your" all idiots. Oh, the irony.

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