CK I was not attacking you and I was trying or attempting to make it as non attack as possible towards you personally.
The internet has no ability to reflect tone or preception it is simply impossible.
What I wrote is how I "interperted" the email could I be wrong yes 100% I am big enough and old enough to be willing to admit when I am wrong. The email has come across badly and yes was written poorly
I still believe your trainer should be taking Abby to actually see first hadn various types of riders and styles . A picture ( now this is simply my opinion over years of experince ) simply will not help again ...its down to interpertation particularly with a young untrained eye.
Now video I think would help Abby much much more then any picture ever will and I am sure someone on here will have or at least have a source of videos to refrence you towards to help your daughter in her learning experince