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Jul 25 09 5:24 AM
4Horses and Holding wrote: I'm so sorry. I think you already know what's happening and it's a horrid thing to admit to yourself. The only thing I can tell you that might work is to continue ignoring him. You were right, he should have been the one to beg you. If he doesn't come back to you of his own free will, then it doesn't matter how much you beg, you won't keep him... at least not happily. My first husband either cheated on me or only got to the planning stage after our first child was born. I caught him. I dumped him. I begged him to come back. He did. Guess what? I got pregnant again a few months later. Then guess what? We ended up separating and divorcing and then I was not just a single mom with one child, I was a single mom with TWO children. I adore my daughter, BUT it made it SO much harder (and you don't miss what things that you don't know you don't have, you know?). << does that need more explaining? I mean that I would NEVER give up my daughter, but if I'd never have had her, my life would have been easier and I would never have known the joy that she is and so it wouldn't have been a loss to the "then me".
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