I am sorry that you are going through this. I have been there many times and know how you are feeling. I do want to tell you to be careful if you are leaving the state with your child. Some states will not allow you to do that, even if you have physical custody, unless you can prove that you are bettering your child's life. If you are in one of those states then you need to do the legal thing before you leave. Get all of your paperwork for custody, visitation and support together before you make your move, be sure that the papers state that you have physical custody and you need to decide what kind of visitation would be right for your child, not you and not the father, what is best for your daughter.

I hope that everything works out for the best for you and your daughter.