Hugs to you. I am so very sorry you are going through such a difficult time. If he isn't contributing to your bills I think you should ask him for child support and ask him to leave. I guess I don't understand why you need to pack yourself and your baby up, sell your horse, and abandon babysitters who give you a break. You are the mother of his child not his maid. He will live three hours away from both you and his maybe also his new girlfriend you don't know about for sure or he will get an apartment. He might see the light and realize he has absented himself so much from your lives that you don't see a point in him being there. It might be the jolt he needs. If you have the option of medical you sign up for it for the sake of your child. You don't ignore the option and leave it to chance. He is working two jobs he should have the money to pay for it. More hugs to you. I desperately wish he wasn't forcing these choices on you and would grow the hell up.

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