(((hugs)))

My story. Gary and I weren't together long when I got pregnant with Kayla. I ended up moving back to Tucson from Phoenix (long story there, too, manipulative parents and such). We didn't get along very well when we were apart. Then finally, I think Kayla might have been 6 months old, I gave him an ultimatum. Either move down to Tucson, (I really do hate Phoenix, way too hot and high crime) or we are over.

He was down here within 3 months. He had to have time to get a transfer going, find us an apartment, and tie up loose ends. He proved that he did want the family thing after all. Kayla's now 8, and we are expecting baby #2. I really hope for your sake that your bf sees what he has. But it might take an ultimatum to make it clear for him.

Your baby is beautiful, btw. You are truly blessed with her. I hope everything turns around for you, and if not, I wish you the strength to get through what you need to get through.


One question though, your post makes it seem like he's not contributing to any of the baby items. You shouldn't feel guilty about having him buy some diapers. He created her as well, and she's his responsibility just as much as yours. He needs to step up and provide for his child.

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FFV OSL but I have no eggs.

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