Hey Dengel .... (HUGS first of all!) I just read this, if you ever need to vent - PM me or call me, I'll give you my cell in a PM if you need it. Dont ever feel like your out of options, I have an extra room too and a extra stall... though I'm all the way in MA. I'm not going to give you any advise as I don't have children, but honey keep your head up and be strong.... I know you are!! Aspen is gorgeous and your a wonderful mom!