WKB.. Your opinion is valid and interesting.
But this is certainly not the right thread to debate it.

Go make a "FIND GOD OR NOT", or something. Right now, FJ's personal troubles trump whatever distaste you might find in the advice others give her-because at least advice is well meaning and in many times, can be useful.

“There's a lot about discovering who you are and how difficult that is, and it never stops.”
- Libba Bray