WhoKilledBambi wrote:
And I simply made a comment pointing out that she was dragging in an aspect that had no place in the discussion. I'm not going to get into an argument about it here.

Yes you are. You started the argument simply by bringing it up. You knew it'd be controversial and that's precisely why you posted it.

I am not a religious person, either, and haven't decided whether or not I believe in God, but you won't see me pissing on someone else's kind advice just because I don't believe in the same God s/he does. KG's comment wasn't directed at you and it's not your place to comment on whether KG's advice to had "a place" in this discussion. Many people are religious, and thus many think that God is very close to their life, thus relevant to the decisions they make. It is not up to you to come in here and piss on that just because you are an atheist and want everyone else to be, as well. Go spew that elsewhere. Your negativity here is neither appreciated nor helpful. Grow up and learn when to keep your mouth shut.









On topic...I really don't have much to add that hasn't already been stated. You are the only one you can rely on, FJ, and, at this point, you are also the only one your daughter can rely on. Keep that in mind and prioritize accordingly. Take care of yourself and your little girl, and don't rely on someone who has proven to be disinterested and unreliable. For your daughter's sake, I hope her father mans up and decides to be a part of her life...but you don't need a man who doesn't want to be around. I wish you the best of luck and hope things start looking up for you soon.

(edited because for some reason I got confused and thought you had a lil boy - thanks to 4H for telling me otherwise )

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