LolaJ724 wrote:

As someone who continually martyred herself for a man that didn't appreciate it, learning, knowing that I DESERVED better was no easy feat. I can tell you with 150% certainty, that you DESERVE to be treated with the love and respect that you have so openly given.

QFT

Hang in there! You're an awesome mom. Sorry you're bf is being such a deadbeat, he doesn't really deserve you and her at this moment. Things will even out in some way. Life is always ups and downs, and you sound like such a strong woman. Kudos to you for working real hard at this, a lot of women aren't as strong as you. You're girl definitely has an awesome mom to look up to and idolize. *hugs*