I'm so sorry things didn't work out. He had his chance and he blew it. That is nobody's fault but his own.

You owe him nothing, in fact, if he hasn't been contributing to baby expenses then he owes you.

Think about it this way, as your daughter grows up, what kind of example do you want to be for her? Kids pick up on way more than we think sometimes, and she'll know if you're miserable with your life and she'll know if you're happy.

You have great strength, and if you can't bring yourself to use it for you, use it for your daughter. She'll be watching you more closely than you can imagine.

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