dogsnhorses wrote:
Hon, I had my husband and his best friend read your posts. Both turned to me and said "he's got another girl somewhere, I guarantee it." He's with you when its convenient for him, and with someone else the rest of the time.

It's not your fault, it's not your daughter's fault, it's the way he is. Get out and get on with your life, and someday find a man who will be loving and supportive and THERE for you and your little girl.

Hugs-- feel free to PM me if I can help in any way.



To be honest, that was my immediate reaction too - that he's cheating. I don't have a baby, but it's pretty much to a T the way my ex acted when he fell for another girl at the end of our relationship. And good lord, did it hurt. I knew in my gut what was going on without having to be told, but I still wanted to "fix it." But you can't - you can't MAKE him be there for you or your baby at the end of the day if he simply doesn't want to.

Again, I'm so, so sorry you are having to go through this.