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Aug 2 09 11:45 AM
I lurk more than I post, but FJ, whew, I just read (most) of this thread and my heart just aches for you. This guy...he's not a man. A man knows and faces up to his obligations. He isn't doing this. He's not man enough to maintain his word, set up regular child support, tell you the truth or break it off with you. He' an emotional coward. He's leaving you with ALL the burden of keeping a house, baby and relationship going. This is absolutely, unequivocably unacceptable. You've got that friend in Montana. Do you have family or a friend closer than this? I have the sense that you could really use the emotional support of a stable, trustworthy friend/relative. You're doing great as a mom, but you've got to take care of YOU also. I think it'd be a great idea to move where you KNOW you will receive love and support. It'll still be hard, sure, babies are hard. But think of all the mental energy you'll have to channel to other opportunities and needs when you leave this guy behind. I don't know how else to help. You sound strong and brave and good hearted. Go be with people who are deserving of all these good qualities. If all else fails, change the lock on your door, delete his info from your phone or block his calls and just keep on trucking.
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