Okay, I just skimmed, and couldn't resist saying that speaking as a bilingual French major, this

"ll vraiment isnt qui confondant"

is the most horribly mangled spat-directly-out-of-an-internet-translator French I have ever seen. Please tell me the OP isn't actually claiming French as 'one of her native languages' after posting that?

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