Don't hate how it sounds, you are too good for him. You can still be "too good" to date him and have compassion for him. It sounds like his choices have clearly led to the outcome though and he does not sound mentally healthy. From your other posts I would say it would be in your best interest to surround yourself with mentally healthy and positive people.

Riding a horse is not a gentle hobby, to be picked up and laid down like a game of solitaire. It is a grand passion. It seizes a person whole and once it has done so, he will have to accept that his life will be radically changed. Ralph Waldo Emerson

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