It is indeed, sad, for him, but you need to stay away from a troubled man like that. If this is where he is at age 40, there is no chance love alone will save him.
It will take a profound desire within himself to do so and most likely it will require a rock bottom you don't want any part of.

The best you could do for him is find an AA group for him to join.


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