::::kicks Lisa in the shin::::
I've got personal experiences with this topic. Working in a bar for nearly 4 years I saw hundreds of people just like this guy and just as many people looking to rescue someone...It never ends well...

"Blessed are the flexible for they shall not get bent out of shape"
"You can discipline and Discourage or you can Discipline and Encourage"
"Gentle in what you do , But firm in how you do it"