Two of my mares are cuddly and sweet, but just for a few moments. The other mares are always curious to see what I have for them, but then lose interest quickly (verrry quickly lol). One of my geldings is the same way and he's also really bossy. They are all QH. My only non QH (Perch x STB) is very cuddly and gets all "oh oh, you're here, yay, omg I need lovin' and I'll follow you forever until you give it to me".