I was adopted at age 5, and it was from a bad home into a worse home. And my birth mom was a sack of shit, she dumped my stser and I, then went and had another kid a few years later who she spoiled and dotes on. We don't even talk anymore, she's nuttier than I am, and thats saying something!

I remember the process being long, and unpleasant for me. I had to stay with nasty relatives till it was done.

My personal reccommendation would be to have a closed adoption. Having my bio mom in my life really screwed me up, messed with my head. It was weird, and uncomfortable. Easier to have a new mom, and never think about it again.


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