Holy shit that is a whole bunch of crazy. I agree bad idea to trade her the horse in the first place. I hope you get it all figured out.

Riding a horse is not a gentle hobby, to be picked up and laid down like a game of solitaire. It is a grand passion. It seizes a person whole and once it has done so, he will have to accept that his life will be radically changed. Ralph Waldo Emerson

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